Skip to main content

About Taking Care a Baby

A week ago, i was in bad condition... I feel more sensitive and sometimes I can't handle myself....,
It feels more difficult when I take a role as stay at home mom...

I tell my hubby about that... And he said "you want to work, go then but please have a breakfast and dinner with me" Thank you hubby.... That is what i want but it's not my choice...,

Then he try to found an answer... And finally he said "I think you need me, you already taking care Aleena all day, so I should taking care of you in the night, right,,," I guess he's right..., for all this time I feel like a single parent even though there are a lot of people who could help me here..., I think I need his support and also hubby's role...,

About taking care our Aleena Do you know what I've been through it...
First Thing is I got shock with all about baby things..., I'm a last child and even I have a niece I never know how my sister taking care of him because she lives in Sydney..., So in other word, I know nothing... I thought the baby will drink milk easily or she will eat easily without any drama or she will sleep by herself and etc..., I never know about baby's life....,

I told it to my friend, teh fit.. And she said "then I'm gonna be better" yap I'm sure she will be better from me., at least she will skip my drama because she already experienced two baby's life, her younger sister and brother...,

Now the second thing is I'm a last child who raise a first child..., there are a lot of different characteristic about this sequence..., I don't know if it's a matter for other people... But it is for me...,  I'm not really independent and sometimes childish and Aleena seems dominant and stubborn... I have no idea how to solve this but I figure out something.... most of my best friends are a first child or middle child at least the have little brother or sister... So they are more more mature from me and I think I should learn from them.....,


Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Why Should I

One night my dad telling me about my cousin's achievement... Good carrier and high salary..., Then he compare me with my part time job and enough salary... He told me that i don't have ambition..., A little bit hurt because he compare it to salary..., To be honest.... I don't really care about my salary and about how i can prove to others that i'm good..., I don't live for people's opinion.... i just live for myself... I just want to enjoy my life and now i am... Is it wrong... What if my key factor to happiness is different from others... Am i wrong... Why should i live like other people??? Let me tell you about my ambition... here it is: i want to create a children story that will be remembered by all children in the world...,, I want to be a game maker especially in creating the main character that will be loved by every children I want to be a creative blogger that inspire many many many people especially for every woman around the world...

Blog baru lagi

Emang galau banget ini pake bikin yang baru lagi. Sekarang bikin yang gratisan takutnya ga bisa perpanjang bayar terus jadi ilang kan sayang.   cek di sini ya elinamaikamom.wordpress.com siapakah elinamaika? langsung cek aja ya hahaha naon sih see you bye bye.

2020

Tahun ini dibuka dengan foto keluarga, alhamdulillah semuanya masih ada, lengkap dari kakek nenek sampai cucu.  Tahun ini rumah mamah ramai sekali walau ga banyak jalan2 keluar tapi tetap menyenangkan bisa kumpul lengkap Tahun ini misua masuk kantor baru karena kantor sebelumnya mulai mengarah ke riba, masih agak singkat di kantor lama tapi karena ada kesempatan jadi akhirnya diambil. Tahun ini rumah direnovasi cukup besar yg bikin agak kere sekarang. Lebih lapang lebih enak kalau ada banyak orang ga kerasa hectic. Banyak natural light dan ventilasi udara yg lebih enak. Tahun ini pengen mulai perbaikin sholat dan perbaikin pagi biar lebih produktif.  Bacaan buku pertama " the miracle morning". Tahun ini pengen mulai banyak baca buku, bikin anak2 suka baca buku juga. Makin sadar berapa baca buku itu penting. Saat kerasa ilmu yg ada sekarang ga ada apa2nya. Cita-cita yg pengen dicapai 1. Hafal quran, ga ngerti caranya gimana tapi pengen. 2. Punya perpustakaan atau tempat kursus