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Screen time

Menurut definisi saya, screen time itu hal yg sangat berharga. Waktu dimana saya bisa bebas kabur ngerjain yg saya suka, waktu dimana saya ga ngerasa salah maenin hape trus dan waktu dimana anak saya belajar bahasa kedua bahkan ketiga dan ilmu2 yg dia bisa ambil dari film kartun.

Film rekomendasi saya: team umizoomi, zack and quack, dora, blaze and the monster machine dan paw patrol. Semuanya ada di nick jr wkwk jadi promosi, tp emang bener banyak manfaat yg bisa diambil dari film2 itu. Si anak tiba2 suka nyambung pas denger saya dan suami ngobrol, pas ditanya tau darimana pasti jawabannya salah satu film di atas. Balik lagi soal screen time, menurut pengalaman saya ada beberapa pilihan yg bisa diambil:

1. Anak tantrum
Klo kuat ngadepin tantrum anak yah tinggal kasih gadget, tapi saya mah ga suka jadinya saya mulai berhenti kasih gadget ke anak pas umur 3 taunan. Peer bgt marahnya dia klo ga bisa ngedapetin apa yg dia mau. Tantrum yg ini avoidable soalnya jadi sekarang cuma TV yg bisa bener2 dia kuasain.

2. Anak manis dan kreatif
Saya coba ngebatasin waktu nonton tv anak saya dan ternyata efeknya luar biasa. Anak mana yg ga suka diperhatiin orang tuanya. Jadinya sweet bgt dan tentunya jadi kreatif karena saat ngerasa bosen ide2 brilian bisa muncul. Cuma yah itu saya jadi banyak berkorban waktu untuk diri sendiri yg jadi minim.

3. Ibu hepi
Kondisi dimana saya ngebiarin tv nyala terus demi saya bisa ngelakuin kerjaan yg saya mau heuuuu biasa kejadian di h-1 sebelom libur haghaghag.. Efek minusnya anak saya cuma duduk di depan tv, maenan buku dan alat2 tulis hanya pajangan. Gatel jg liatnya.

Jadi pada intinya setiap pilihan ada efek positif dan negatifnya. Yg paling susah adalah semuanya ada di tangan saya, saya yg harus milih heuuuu....

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